How would you describe love?
Hmmm…that was one of the questions in most slam books back in school. Now when I think back and look at answers I gave back then, I feel how naïve I was…can anyone at that age really understand love? Then again I look at many blogs around me…I look at different posts….different perspectives and I’m left wondering…do we ever? Understand love that is?
I went through all kinds of phases…in love…Why is it that when you think you have all the answers, you’re faced with a whole new set of questions!! Why can’t love be simple and straightforward!
And yes it’s simpler when we’re kids…nothing complicated about crushes and infatuations and dating! (easy saying that now that I’m done with that phase!!)
What is it about being a grown up and love becoming the most complex word in the human dictionary??
There’s nothing to describe in love…is there?
Sometimes love walks in when you least expect it…casts a spell…can you fight it off? Sometimes you’re left with all these feelings tearing you apart and the person you long for is oblivious of your feelings. There are times when two people love each other and yet they can’t be with each other and sometimes life seems perfect when love is reciprocated and returned with equal fervor if not more and you find yourself waking up more in love everyday when u see your love's smile every morning...
What’s fair about love? Nothing…
The only time it makes sense is when you get love back…and then again where’s the surety it’s forever? I’ve never believed in forever. Everything needs to be nurtured and so does love. Keep growing in love…keep believing…keep learning…don’t just keep falling in love…
Even though falling in love remains the best part of it all…the rush, the excitement, the novelty and the whole longing for what next….!!
And when I say love doesn’t last forever, would it be easy to accept that? Would you be willing to understand that? If the person you love and who you think loves you, walks up to you and tells you his/her feelings have changed…would you be able to let them walk away?
Love!!… Why isn’t the word “complicated” a synonym for love??!
Do you think you have the answers to this? We all do, don’t we? Each one of us living our version of love...be it good, bad, ecstasy, hurt, pleasure, pain…cursing love…swearing off it and then rushing into it…clinging to it!
What’s life without love? Empty…I say...
Ps: hmmm…above is what happens when one spends the whole evening listening to mushy love songs...*sigh* :-)))
I, btw, just luv the song from gangster…”tu hi mera shab hai”… (No, not the remix version!)
I went through all kinds of phases…in love…Why is it that when you think you have all the answers, you’re faced with a whole new set of questions!! Why can’t love be simple and straightforward!
And yes it’s simpler when we’re kids…nothing complicated about crushes and infatuations and dating! (easy saying that now that I’m done with that phase!!)
What is it about being a grown up and love becoming the most complex word in the human dictionary??
There’s nothing to describe in love…is there?
Sometimes love walks in when you least expect it…casts a spell…can you fight it off? Sometimes you’re left with all these feelings tearing you apart and the person you long for is oblivious of your feelings. There are times when two people love each other and yet they can’t be with each other and sometimes life seems perfect when love is reciprocated and returned with equal fervor if not more and you find yourself waking up more in love everyday when u see your love's smile every morning...
What’s fair about love? Nothing…
The only time it makes sense is when you get love back…and then again where’s the surety it’s forever? I’ve never believed in forever. Everything needs to be nurtured and so does love. Keep growing in love…keep believing…keep learning…don’t just keep falling in love…
Even though falling in love remains the best part of it all…the rush, the excitement, the novelty and the whole longing for what next….!!
And when I say love doesn’t last forever, would it be easy to accept that? Would you be willing to understand that? If the person you love and who you think loves you, walks up to you and tells you his/her feelings have changed…would you be able to let them walk away?
Love!!… Why isn’t the word “complicated” a synonym for love??!
Do you think you have the answers to this? We all do, don’t we? Each one of us living our version of love...be it good, bad, ecstasy, hurt, pleasure, pain…cursing love…swearing off it and then rushing into it…clinging to it!
What’s life without love? Empty…I say...
Ps: hmmm…above is what happens when one spends the whole evening listening to mushy love songs...*sigh* :-)))
I, btw, just luv the song from gangster…”tu hi mera shab hai”… (No, not the remix version!)
The song playing in my space 'Shania Twain's - U've got a way for me'... is dedicated to the love of my life :-) ... "i love u baby"
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